Relational Code
Theory

A tool for understanding your relationships

Relational Code Theory (RCT) is a practical framework for mapping the real texture of your relationships. Instead of asking "What are we?", it invites a better question: "How do we actually relate?"

Through simple diagrams and guided reflections, you learn to see patterns, name dynamics, and make decisions that honour your time, energy, and sanity.

For individuals, therapists, coaches, and teams who want relational clarity without losing nuance.

The book:
What Are We?

A practical introduction to Relational Code Theory.

What Are We? is the first book based on Relational Code Theory. It guides you through the framework step by step, with stories, diagrams, and reflective prompts to help you test it in your own life.

You do not need any background in psychology or philosophy. The book is written in accessible language, so you can move from idea to application quickly.

What you will learn

  • A way to define relationships beyond standard labels.
  • How to map a Relational Signature for any connection.
  • How to understand your own Resonance Fields and non-negotiables.
  • How to recognise patterns in your wider relational ecosystem.
  • How to make aligned decisions about who you invest in.
What Are We? book mockup - Relational Code Theory

Editions

Black & White Edition

  • Optimised for everyday reading and note-taking
  • All diagrams in black and white
  • Ideal if you like to annotate and carry the book with you

Colour Edition

  • Full-colour diagrams for instant visual clarity
  • Full-page quotes and a more vivid reading experience
  • Ideal if you are a visual thinker or long-term reference user

Both editions contain the same core text. The main difference is the visual experience.

The tool behind the book

A framework you can use for a lifetime.

The Relational Code Theory tool is designed to be used more than once. The more you apply it, the more precise your sense of self and relationships becomes. You can use it privately in your journal, together with a partner, or as part of professional practice.

Relational signature grid visualization showing colored dots representing resonance fields across relationships

Example relational signature visualization

Core components

01

Resonance Fields

Dimensions such as emotional, physical, intellectual, spiritual, practical, social, aesthetic, sovereignty, play, adventure, co-regulation and psychic. Each field asks: What is the quality of our connection here?

02

Relational Signature

A visual and written profile of how one relationship behaves across the resonance fields. It captures both numbers and narrative, so you do not lose nuance.

03

Affinity Constellation

A bird's-eye view of your relational world. When you map several connections, you can see where energy is concentrated, where it leaks, and where there is unrealised potential.

From paper to software

Relational Code Theory is entering its digital phase.

Log & Visualize

Track your Relational Signatures over time

Track Patterns

Identify shifts and recurring dynamics

Reflect Deeply

Document key changes as they unfold

Our team is developing the digital tool where you will be able to log and visualise your Relational Signatures over time, track patterns, and reflect on key changes.

If your organisation or team would benefit from integrating this framework into your own software or systems, you're welcome to reach out through the contact form.

Limited Beta Access

The first 100 people to join the waitlist will receive free access to the beta version.

Resources

Printable templates and diagrams to support your practice.

Colour Diagrams

The colour diagrams give you a clear, immediate view of your Relational Signature. They translate the Relational Code Theory system into a visual language so you can recognise patterns at a glance and understand how each field interacts with the others.

Included diagrams:

  • Colours assigned to each resonance field
  • Coloured bar chart for all fields
  • Relational Depth symbols
  • Coloured Visual Signature Map

3 templates, PDF, ~2MB

Self-tracking sheet

The self-tracking sheet gives you a simple, one-page way to map a connection. It works alongside the questionnaire and the colour diagrams, offering a quick visual overview you can fill in and revisit over time.

Included in the sheet:

  • Space to add the connection's name and date
  • Self-filling bar chart for all resonance fields
  • Empty Visual Signature Map grid

Coming Soon

Vision Journal

Vision Journal open spread showing tracking pages

Important note: This image of the Vision Journal has been provisionally generated with AI, the product is still in its design phase and will be launched when it's ready and tested by our team.

The Vision Journal brings the Relational Code Theory system into a calm, high-quality stationery format crafted with intention.

It guides you from the initial questionnaire into an ongoing practice where you can track your connections, map their Visual Signature, and reflect on how each relationship evolves over time.

Inside the journal

Brief overview of the Relational Code Theory system

Full Relational Signature questionnaire

Space to map your key connections

Name and date pages for each profile

Self-filled bar charts for all resonance fields

Visual Signature Map grid

Bullet-point journaling pages that adapt to any style—writing, drawing, sketching, or free-form reflection

Join the waiting list to be notified when the Vision Journal launches

About the project

Relational Code Theory began with a simple observation: most of our relationships do not fit neatly into the categories we try to force them into. The question "What are we?" rarely reveals the truth of a connection. What we need instead is a way to understand how we actually relate — with clarity, nuance, and honesty.

This project was created to offer that clarity. What started as one question became a framework. That framework became a book. And now it is growing into a set of tools anyone can use.

For individuals

Relational Code Theory gives you a practical way to see your relationships more clearly—beyond labels, pressure, or guesswork.

What you get:

  • Diagrams and guided reflections
  • Structured mapping tools
  • Pattern recognition
  • Dynamic naming frameworks

Whether navigating a friendship, partnership, family bond, or something undefined, RCT helps you understand what's really happening so you can act with confidence and alignment.

For professionals, teams, and organisations

Relational Code Theory serves as a clarity tool for people who work with relationships in professional or organisational contexts.

Who uses it:

  • Therapists and coaches
  • Mediators and HR teams
  • Leaders and educators
  • Anyone supporting growth or collaboration

The framework offers a shared language for discussing connection, boundaries, and expectations without pathologising human behaviour.

Coming soon: Digital tracking systems, training materials, and custom integrations for clinical, educational, and workplace settings.

About the creator

Danisina portrait

Danisina is a strategist, philosopher, and artist. Creator of Relational Code Theory, she investigates how health, connection, and collaboration form the backbone of thriving communities.

After a decade in strategic marketing for global companies, she sold everything she owned to explore what it means to live well. Between Albania, Kosovo, Greece, Spain, Italy, England, Austria, and Switzerland—where much of this book was written—she worked in unconventional roles and rebuilt her understanding of health, connection, and purpose.

Alongside her philosophical work, she is developing Consultora Mundo Sostenible with her father, a PhD in Agricultural Engineering and ESG strategist, as well as a sustainability, certification, and impact auditor. Together, they guide companies and producers in transitioning towards sustainability through systemic design and ethical governance.

Guided by a lifelong obsession with understanding what truly matters, she has come to see health—in body, in relationships, and in the collective systems we build—as the ground from which meaning and beauty grow.

Get in touch

For questions, collaborations, or integrating Relational Code Theory into your work.

We are a small team, we read every message, but we might need time to respond. Thank you for your patience.

Insights & Interviews

Stories, conversations, and reflections on relationships, clarity, and the practice of understanding connection.

InterviewComing Soon

Understanding Resonance Fields in Practice

A deep dive into how Resonance Fields manifest in everyday relationships and what they reveal about connection patterns.

Case StudyComing Soon

Implementing RCT in Therapeutic Settings

Therapists and coaches share their experiences using Relational Code Theory with clients.

Behind the ScenesComing Soon

The Evolution of Relational Clarity

Exploring the journey from intuition to framework and how RCT developed over time.

Blog content is currently in development. Check back soon for interviews and insights.